Does his siblings have to be apart of my life?????

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My bf and i have been together for 3 years coming up in august and we've been through soooo much already seems like we were together for like 5 years. But anyway i cant stand his sister. And its mutual she doesnt like me but she fake like she does when she's around him. But im not a fake person and everyone in his family knows we do not get along. My bf and i have decided that we are going to move in together in June/July. However i dont think his sister will ever be welcomed in my home by me. I had started buying things for the new apartment like kitchen appliances, bathroom stuff etc. My bf's mother said that to limit the money i spend i could have a house warming and maybe people will pitch in with the rest. Will i be wrong to not invite his sister??????? All opinions are welcome.

If you are inviting the rest of his family, I don't see how you could not invite his sister. Its just a party, she's not moving in with you. Sometimes in a family situation you gotta take the good with the bad. She may not accept anyway, but you will have done the right thing.

I understand but its like with all the things that happened in the past and all the things she did to try to break us up if i get her in my house i just might do some terrible things to her. See i dont even look at her as his sister i look at her as just another female on the streets or something.

If you want this man to be a part of your life, and you a part of his, then you need to accept all that comes with him. If he is close with his family, his sister, in this case, then it is something you will need to work on if you want the relationship to with your boyfriend to continue going well. You should never expect him to choose between you and his family.

You don't have to be best friends with his sister.. but as mature adults, you should both be able to tolerate eachother and be civil with one another.. for his sake, if for no other reason.

I think it would be rude to invite the rest of this family and not her. If he has any say in who would be invited, I would hope he would say the same. Be the bigger person... make the first nice move by inviting her. I mean, if you two are married one day, would you not invite her to the wedding!!?? I know the situations are much different.. but I think they have the same principle.

I think you need to put your personal feelings for her aside, and attempt a civil relationship with her for the sake of your boyfriend.


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