Health questions:Why dont i climax during sex?

orgasm, get off whatever ud like to call it. Sex is great dont get me wrong. but it only happens once every few months if im lucky. and when id does happen its like u need a life jacket n a boat to get outa the room its sooo much. and its awesome when it does happen for me. but why doesnt it happen everytime?? he gets so mad at me, he thinks hes doing something wrong? i hear that u havta get a certain spot for a girl the g spot or wahtever is that true? maybe mines damaged or sumin? how often do u climax?
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Sounds like your trying too hard. You don't need to position yourself to be more towards the front. The big O should come from stimulation from inside. Sounds like your trying to have climax from clitoris stimulation. Also slamming around doesn't help. Try very slow short almost non movements.The motion is like back and forth instead of in and out if that makes sense. I know this is hard to imagine. Allow yourself to feel. When you find the spot repeat as many times as it take. That is the best I can tell you. Thinking or trying too much will hinder what your trying to get.
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you need to try different positions till you get it right, i thought i was climaxing for years before i really did...
now i can do it without hardly any effort...
sometimes a grinding motion works better than a thrusting motion...try getting on top and grinding back and forth...see how that feels
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I've learnt recently that I am very unusual in that I climax very quickly and the other person has to put in little effort for big results.
G spot orgasms are the really deep shuddery ones, clitoral are less intense. The Gspot is the back of the clitoris and it is inside the front wall of your vagina, you should be able to reach it with a finger.
Experiment and see what happens when you or your boyfriend touch in different ways/places.
Also your cycle can affect your orgasms apparently. There are times of the month when you are hornier and climax more readily. This could be why there are certain times when you can do it.
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Yours is NOT damaged. And it's not your fault - why would he get so mad at YOU?????
At least 50% of women do not orgasm with intercourse. That's half of all women !!! That's a LOT !!!
You know you can orgasm, you've done it.
The trick is to learn what works for you and teach your man that's what works for you. It could be manual stimulation (fingers), it could be oral stimulation, it could be you doing it or him doing it. The thing is, he's got to be nice about it or it won't happen. If it's a contest, or there's lots of pressure to do it, it won't happen. He needs to back off and give a girl a little support.
For women, trust is a big issue. If you can trust him to be there for you (whether or not you orgasm) then you'll be more likely to.
Have fun.
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what type of Sex? most women don't orgasm from intercourse alone but from oral (i.e. clitoral stimulation).
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Everybody's body is different. You need to really look for keys to what works for you.

Your boyfriend should start by exploring every square inch of your body. I mean every. I dated somone who orgasmed when her feet were massaged.

Find out your non-genital hotspots and make sure he spends time on them during foreplay.

Generally, the longer the build, the better/more consistent the orgasm. So, spend more time on foreplay.

If you want to find your g-spot, do a little research on where it is. Basically, if somone puts a finger in you with their palm facing up, and they make a "come hither motion" up and towards themself, they will find the g-spot. It's like a hard ridge that sits up and in. It will feel like you have to pee when he finds it. When you relax, though, it'll blow your mind

You have to relax. You have to stop making it a "race" to orgams, and Your boy needs to try more foreplay, angling his unit during Sex, and different positions to get you there.

Sex should be a combination of sensations (Skin, mind, clit, penetration, hair. . . . ) that lead to the big O.

It also may help if you masturbate some to really find out how your body works.
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For ladies it's physical and mental. Think Sexy naughty thoughts to help get you there.
Next time your on top or in doggy style position have him (or you) rub your clit area. It has thousands of nerve endings. That plus your vagina getting plesaure should do it.
Don't hold back on the very wet squirting orgasm you have. Let loose with the feeling so you'll enjoy it more. Who cares about the clean up.
There is a G-spot. In doggy style postion he can slip his fingers inside with his palm facing down and tickle your vagina from inside rubbing back and forth.
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Damn!!! there are married guys on this!!!!.... It's like bringing a starving/homeless person near an italian restaraunt! But ya good luck with that.

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